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How to Read More Books

It is fair to say I hated reading. All I really cared about was to capture all the ideas and drawings in a brief moment. Even comic books didn’t offer relief- there were too many practical things, responsibilities and games that appeared more approachable than reading itself. The task of reading reminded me of my time at school, the many forced textbooks deciding for us why an author or text ought to be read. Without growing up as a ‘natural’ reader or book hobbyist, reading like for many can be seen retreating to brisk moments over web articles and social media drama. It is not uncommon to hear the busied, grown adult exclaim they have almost no books. Giggles arise when the question becomes “when was the time you last read a book?” I was in the same camp until I hit a wall in my search for good habits- learning has and always will derive from the source of reading. We can all quench our thirst for knowledge and skill by redeveloping our relationship with books. A book reader is not just about esoteric texts or prolonged study sessions. This blog post offers some tips on how we can fine-tune our way to more book reading.

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How ‘Positive Thinking’ Causes Destruction

Happy: Why More or Less Everything is Absolutely Fine by Derren Brown throws the towel on today’s age of positive thinking. Like with his enigmatic charisma, he guides readers on a different path to ‘happiness’. One that halts the pelting, positive treadmill and focuses on finding acceptance in the reality of disappointment and joy. His graceful writing stretches 446 pages and makes clear readers do not need yet another ‘quick rich scheme’ or a book jammed with positive quotes. After finding myself binging on plentiful ‘inspiring’ messages, I appreciate his view that positivity guides have paradoxically caused discontent in needing continued positivity. Brown introduces Stoicism as the old age thinking to rediscover an approach to finding resilience, acceptance, and happiness in precarious human life. He carves open the stoic perspective by taking the reader through a phenomenal breadth of knowledge, history, philosophy, and psychology. The book offers lots to contemplate, from angles of life to acceptance of death. Ultimately, this book provides a framework to discover and take greater happiness from ordinary life. This article will not be a book review and instead focus on Brown’s interesting contempt of today’s ‘positive thinking’ mantra. Why has the positive thinking movement become such a toxic barrier to happiness? How can positive thinking become suddenly negative and destructive? 

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